{"id":1987,"date":"2010-06-07T19:39:57","date_gmt":"2010-06-08T02:39:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/?p=1987"},"modified":"2025-05-23T17:32:44","modified_gmt":"2025-05-23T22:32:44","slug":"small-happinesses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/small-happinesses\/","title":{"rendered":"Small Happinesses"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I thought of something today that always makes me happy: people&#8217;s bathroom reading.  I love every magazine, book, crossword puzzle and newspaper.  I like it better too if they&#8217;re on the floor- like someone was just reading right before you came over.  <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\nIf I go to your house for the first time and you left a People magazine on the floor next to your toilet, we&#8217;ll be fast friends.  If you left a half-done crossword puzzle and a pen, I&#8217;ll try and make us best friends.  You should tidy up the rest of your house though, just the first or second time I come over.  After that you can just live like you usually do.  <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\nThere&#8217;s just something so carelessly intimate about seeing people&#8217;s bathroom reading.  Like they&#8217;re letting you get to know them better than they normally would- maybe by accident, maybe because of carelessness.  Either way you&#8217;re in.  You know they love rereading Catcher in the Rye or subscribe to Traditional Living regardless of what facade they put on otherwise.  <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\nA magazine rack is ok, it&#8217;s not as good as something on the floor- but it&#8217;s better than nothing.  Nothing is suspicious.  Nothing makes me think you are eternally worried about what people think of you.  I&#8217;m pretty worried about what people think of me, but not worried enough to take the reading material off the back of the toilet. <\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\nLooking at the reading on the floor of a dear friend&#8217;s bathroom and smiling today made me remember for a minute that I&#8217;m still here.  I&#8217;m not the same anymore, but I&#8217;m not gone either.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I thought of something today that always makes me happy: people&#8217;s bathroom reading. I love every magazine, book, crossword puzzle and newspaper. I like it better too if they&#8217;re on the floor- like someone was just reading right before you came over. &nbsp; If I go to your house for the first time and you &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/small-happinesses\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Small Happinesses&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1987"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3527,"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1987\/revisions\/3527"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.poorluckyme.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}